One of the best things you can do to boost your confidence and success with girls is to become more masculine. We as men respond to women with the done up hair, makeup, dress, and sexy attitude. Women respond in the same way to a Man’s Man. A Man who oozes masculinity both inside and out. I’m going to outline for you some immediate ways to become more appealing to the opposite sex by super charging your masculinity.
Increase your physical masculinity
1-posture/demeanor- One of the only instant changes you can make to be more masculine is to carry yourself better. By that I mean keep your chin up and chest out. The way you walk and carry yourself either shows confidence or insecurity. Look at a guy like James Bond (when he’s smiling). He’s been played by may actors but they all carried themselves in a masculine way. Don’t be afraid to mimick someone with good body language until it becomes a part of you.
2-build some muscle- There’s no question muscles are as masculine as it gets. Bodybuilding is my favorite sport and has taught me so much. Every guy should weight train and could use the many benefits of it. I have a whole area of this blog dedicated to it. Do it! Build some muscle!
3-dress edgier- Ditch the plain boring clothes that everyone is wearing. Stop playing it safe. Look at celebrities and some fashion models. Go on Pinterest and look up men’s fashion. Go out and find the outfits you see there that you like and don’t be afraid to try things out of your comfort zone. If you aren’t getting compliments on something you are wearing you need to dress edgier.
4-grow some facial hair- Beards are very in right now. Some girls go crazy for them. I’ve seen very scrawny guys with big beards that give them a much more powerful and masculine look that gets good reactions from girls. Try it out and see if it works for you.
Increase your non physical masculinity
5-be respectful of your time- A man’s man respects his time. This deserves a post in itself but always be mindful of how you give out your time and energy to people. Especially ones that don’t deserve it. Also don’t tolerate people who waste your time.
6-draw boundaries- If you don’t stand for something you will fall for anything. When somebody does something that you don’t feel right about, TELL THEM IMMEDIATELY. Nothing is worse than feeling ill about a situation that you could have handled and thinking about it over and over again after the fact. Always speak up! If you don’t have strong boundary control you will most likely never have a successful relationship. You teach people how to treat you with your behavior and you get what you tolerate.
7-place no one else in higher importance than yourself- This is huge. We worship celebrities and athletes and so many people around the world. Make no mistake though, you are living YOUR life. Not theirs. Absolutely draw inspiration from these people, but don’t think they are better than you. We all come into this world exactly the same and have unlimited capabilities. Value yourself and go after anything you want. Don’t listen to anyone who tells you otherwise.
8-speak slower and louder- Speak up and speak slower. Especially when out at a bar or nightclub talking to girls. Talk like you are used to being listened to. Don’t worry about having some pauses in your speech. Think Morpheus in the matrix, James Bond, and my all time favorite rock star Gene Simmons. Study their speech.