I was watching a swimsuit contest recently on TV. Part of the show had a segment where they sat down on the beach and interviewed every gorgeous model one by one. The first question they asked was “What do you look for in a guy?” There were about 30 girls so not every single one said the exact same answers in order. What was interesting though was that there were 2 things mentioned unanimously more than anything else. Can you guess the top two things these gorgeous girls look for in a guy? (Hint: It’s not looks, money, or fame)
2. Sense of humor
These two characteristics were mentioned over and over again by every single girl. From my experience they are spot on with these being the two most important attraction building tools in a mans arsenal. The best part is that you can start to use them immediately.
Displaying and becoming confident as well as how to use and develop humor are massive topics which both deserve their own posts. For now I want to give you 4 quick tips to begin to display these two characteristics in your interactions with girls.
1- Model confident men. Movies are a good start. Think of any character who shows rock solid confidence. How does he walk, talk, look at people, command respect. Take along look in the mirror or even capture yourself acting naturally on video. I guarantee you will pick up on some things in your posture and demeanor that you can improve.
2- Don’t be too serious. Nothing is worse than seeing a date with two people who are acting like they are on a job interview. No fun, no humor, all business! No one enjoys this. Feel free to make jokes, make fun of yourself, bust her chops a little, and have a good time. Keep things light especially at first.
3- Don’t look so much to others. A confident man makes decisions and sticks with them. A huge mistake guys make is always asking if things are okay with the girl they are dating. Women want you to take the lead and respect a man who stands by his decisions and morals.
4- Don’t be sensitive. You must be able to take a little shit in order to improve your dating skills. If you want to be great you will need to be able to take a lot of shit! When a girl gives you a hard time or busts your balls (usually because she likes you) the best way to respond is to go with it and use your sense of humor. For example if a girl makes fun of your shirt tell her your grandma got it for you for Christmas and you had to wear it in public at least once, and then snap a quick picture in it as a joke. If a girl is complaining to or about you tell her she should probably get a diary or add this to her snapchat story.
Apply these ASAP!